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I think it's funny (or rather, not funny) how people often get personal about their "anchor setting" and make it hard (or impossible) to correct them or offer advice.
My recommendation is to take a locking biner (lock the gate) and hold it in your fist, something like a brass knuckle. (Old Omega D's work well).
When they ignore your advice, I recommend punching the stubborn ass right in the neck or solar plexus.
Seriously though, in places like Kamouraska, when you see SO many scary nightmare anchors, it would be a full time job telling people what they should be doing... And is it any of your business? If someone wants to die, it's their prerogative! (Note, this is an apparentely incorrect usage of the word "prerogative", but I believe it is acceptable according to common usage).
It's easy when it's your ass who's using the rope, you can insist, or leave...
Anyway, it's frustrating and happens often. Thoughts?